A book written

by Trevor Kleinhans

Claire Moore

M.Soc.Sc (Couns. Psych)

Counselling Psychologist

Dr Andrew Grunow 

(MBChB UOFS)

In life we have two choices: to ignore our past pain and leave it to distort who we are; or face it and learn to consciously choose how we feel and behave. Trevor's life is an inspirational story of self-discovery and psychological growth through adversity. Through a lot of self-reflection, some therapy, and a little help from his friends, he has dealt with the scars of sexual abuse, overcome his addiction and developed a healthy romantic relationship. By changing his self-destructive thinking patterns, and taking charge of his emotions, Trevor has found happiness in being the person he was always meant to be.

Innocence and abuse, guilt, confusion, pain, experimentation and discovery... promiscuity, sleazy public toilets, raves and pink parties, hardcore wild orgies, flirtation, lust, seduction, alpha males daring adventure, Russian roulette, drugs and disease, dominance and submission, mindblowing sex, high risks... joy and heartache, death,  HIV... courage, bravery, depression and anxiety... agony and  ECSTASY, sex, drug addiction... cash, international jetset, Europe, gay bars, pink parades, Guess and Gucci, designer jeans and drugs, crack cocaine, vanity, tattoos and bodypiercings, lipo and tummytucks, steroids and gyms... fast cars and fines, Nigerian druglords, cops, drugbusts, police cells... love, commitment, kindness, passion, humour, generosity, leadership, management, expertise, motivation, success... an emotional rollercoaster, life in the fast lane, unashamed  honesty, dark and shocking  truth, sensational, astonishing reality, explicit, eye-opening reading. This was Trevor's life so far... a must read!